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Guidelines
Mint tea is offered frequently
in hotels, cafes, friends homes, when buying and bargaining and is
part of the hospitality.
People are very open and
welcoming and love to invite you to take tea with them.
If for example you are
invited to drink tea with nomadic or village families then a few dirhams
help pay for tea and sugar.
It is discouraged to hand out
money, sweets or pens to the children although they may often ask,
depending on how many tourists have visited the areas.
Friends have said that it is not welcome as it encourages the children
to beg, and it means more hassle for you, and not just for you, but
every other visitor to the region thereafter.
So please observe this as
this can be a problem, and the children can become more aggressive in
their demands - you are not doing them any favours, and you are doing
any favours for any other traveller.
It creates a situation
where the children see the visitors as someone for free handouts, and
ultimately, they may be less inclined to look for work as they grow up.
Gifts are more welcome if
offered to the head of a family household, or given to schools,
hospitals or village associations; the nomadic peoples often need
clothing and shoes. Consult you guide about this, or ask when you e-mail
us.
When photographing, the
landscape is of course free, but often it is better to ask permission to
take photos of people and they will often be more than happy to pose for
you.
With the women it is a
different matter - please do not try to 'sneak' photos of them as they
may be offended, or even frightened if the head of the household has not
approved. It takes more time and patience to photograph them, but if you
exercise consideration, you may be rewarded.
Sometimes you may wish to
give a few dirhams for a photo but ask your guide they can help and
intervene on your behalf.
The official languages of
Morocco are a dialectical Arabic and French. In fact, many of the people
- perhaps up to 65% - speak Berber, but up until now, it was not
considered an official language. The King is now trying to rectify this
by having the language taught in school.
The Berber think of Barbary -
are the indigenous peoples and there are three main dialects spoken
that of the Rif Mountains in the north, the High Atlas and desert, and
the dialect to the west around the area of the river Souss and the Anti
Atlas. Within these dialects, there are also many words local to a
region - not an easy language to learn! The Berber is it thought, may
have descended from ancient peoples, and certainly they have existed
across much of North Africa for several centuries.
You will find though that many
of the people have a gift for picking up languages, especially those who
work with visitors, and English, Spanish, Italian, German, Japanese are
also spoken to name but a few languages!
A few words of
greeting in Arabic or Berber are greatly appreciated and you will soon
learn as they are eager to teach, and of course some French helps too.
What to buy what to take home
as gifts for friends or family? The choice is endless!
There are so many Moroccan
goodies to chose from carpets, hangings, ceramics, wooden items,
jewellery, lamps, glass, iron work, blankets all beautiful, beautiful!
Remember these people are
entrepreneurs so when it comes to bargaining they have already weighed
you up and may set a high price.
Start at a lower price and negotiate they have honed their selling
skills - but also do remember not to knock them down to a rock-bottom
price as they too have to earn their living. It is best perhaps to
decide what you think an item is worth, how much you would wish to pay,
and take the bargaining from there.
Also, do please remember that
sometimes hospitality and mint tea being offered may be a way to take
you to a place to buy; it can be uncomfortable to get away from this, so
avoid this situation if possible, but do not be too suspicious of
everybody as you may miss a chance for something spontaneous to occur.
Having a guide who can
intercede on your behalf is good and less problematic sometimes.
Which isnt to say
shopping in the souks cannot be a great deal of fun!! |